“I’ve been natural my whole life. My mother always encouraged me to be natural. The thing that bothers me sometimes is when folks say that they want to see my hair straightened. I’m like ” no,” it’s fine the way that it is.”
“I’ve been a hair stylist for a while now…”
“I’ve been a hair stylist for a while and one of the saddest moments that I’ve experienced was having a client who requested a two-strand twist out style put her wig back on before leaving the hair salon. She mentioned that her boyfriend had never seen her wear a natural style, so she didn’t feel beautiful enough to wear the style in public. I thought that the style turned out gorgeous, however. Seeing more women embrace their natural hair during the last few years has been empowering.”
Blooming Queens; the Beginning
The concept for Blooming Queens came to me nearly four years ago, but years went by without me acting on the idea. I had some serious creative blocks, but I honestly don’t think that I was ready to consistently act on an idea in order to share it with the world. The idea of a street style photo blog uplifting the growth stories of women with natural hair wouldn’t let me go, however. The concept truly merges my passion for portrait and travel photography, natural hair, health, women’s advocacy and a love for connecting with people to better understand their stories.
Looking back, it’s amazing to reflect on the life events that contributed to the idea of Blooming Queens:
- Winter of 2011: I purchased my first DSLR camera. A Nikon D3600. I’ve always appreciated landscape and portrait photography and I wanted to start being creative again. Sadly, I never used my camera consistency…until now.
- Summer of 2012: I did my big chop after growing out my relaxed hair for several months and it was the first time that I had short hair. Almost instantly my addiction to Youtube hair videos
began! During this time, I discovered quite a few natural hair vloggers who not only provide recommendations for the latest natural hair products, but also inspired my personal development journey in the most unexpected ways. - Winter of 2013: I became a vegetarian and started long distance running. I also paid increasingly more attention to the ingredients in my food as well as my hair products. Around this time, I became more serious about holistic hair and healthcare.
I know that it’s imperative to uplift our stories during a time when school-aged girls are told that their hair needs to be ‘tamed’ before attending school or women who wear their natural hair in the workplace are labeled ‘unprofessional’. My desire is to celebrate women with natural hair of all textures. I aim to share our growth stories with a world that’s often unsympathetic to our presence. I want young women to see that we all may not have it together right now, but the goal is to continue working towards something greater.This blog will serve as a reminder that we are all queens. Blooming Queens, in fact.
One of my favorite quotes is a constant reminder that often times the risk to transform can be less painful then it is to stay in your comfort zone:
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anais Nin
Thanks for coming along for the ride! I look forward to sharing these stories and I know that we will enjoy the journey.
All my best,
Carla
